Hope

“Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.” Helen Keller

Hope, yes that’s this week’s message. I bring it to you as those of us here in the United States are getting ready to embark on this week of thanksgiving. Normally I would be talking about being grateful and thankful. Of course, I am grateful. Of course, I am thankful. I choose to put all of that under the umbrella of HOPE.

Hope is an optimistic viewpoint that you expect there to be a positive outcome. One thing for sure in life is change. You can choose the umbrella of hope where you expect there to be a positive outcome.

I ask myself this question all the time, what if it’s better? I get it we make plans. We decide on this great goal and sometimes it doesn’t go the way you want. If you are living in a space of expectation and hope, then the outcome can be better.

I would love to know your thoughts on hope.

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your confusion is and where you want your CLARITY to be.

GO BE the Leader of YOUR Life!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate

P.S. Are you leading a life that is consistent, orderly and congruent? Is it full of unity, peace and friendship? Are YOU Leading A Life Of Harmony? JOIN US in our online community if you are interested in leading a hope centered, abundant, relationship focused, mindful, optimistic, nurturing, YES filled life!  #LeadingALifeOfHarmony

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Life Is Exponential

“Life really can be exponential. You are far closer to everything you want than you could ever imagine. Miracles are far closer than you think.” Rich Litvin

Life is exponential, yes, that’s this week’s message. I bring it to you as I made the time to have a new view with a new perspective. You don’t necessarily need to leave where you are to get that new view, that new perspective.

What I realized is you are closer to your dream than you know. Miracles are around every corner. Life IS exponential. What you focus on expands.

I know, I know, I’m giving you many concepts and one liners. The reason is, I believe them.

Where are YOU placing your focus? What is growing exponentially? Do you need to PAUSE, get a new view, a new perspective?

I would love to know your thoughts about life is exponential and what you focus on grows.

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your confusion is and where you want your CLARITY to be.

GO BE the Leader of YOUR Life!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate

P.S. Are you leading a life that is consistent, orderly and congruent? Is it full of unity, peace and friendship? Are YOU Leading A Life Of Harmony? JOIN US in our online community if you are interested in leading a hope centered, abundant, relationship focused, mindful, optimistic, nurturing, YES filled life!  #LeadingALifeOfHarmony

I’ve Got A Question

“Heart to heart conversations are the best to me. Everyone’s vulnerable. Vulnerability attracts honesty, honesty attracts soul connections.”

I’ve got a question for you, yes, that’s this week’s message. I bring it to you as I realize I’m addicted to asking questions.

The reason is, I want to know more. I want to know what’s really going on. Usually it takes a while for someone to be open and say what’s going on with them. We aren’t comfortable with being honest and present.

I want to change that. I want deeper connections. When I tell everyone to connect every day. I mean it. As human beings are we really getting to know the real story?

A good friend of mine always told me, everyone has a story and we don’t know what it is.

Ask questions. Be present. Listen. When you truly listen, the next right question will present itself.

I get to thank a few of the women in our community for sharing their thoughts:

Kathy Fisk Mela You are not the only one who wants a deeper connection. I love asking questions and I love hearing where other people are at, what their stories are. I think it’s important for everyone to know they’re loved they have a purpose and they matter. When we listen we let people know they matter. Thanks Nina for this great message to remind us to ask questions and then be present and listen.

Amber Bachus-Martin Very few things are more important than a connection.

Debbie Bellon Love this Nina! I want to know too. I had a networking event last night and I went in with the mindset that I was there to connect with people and to help not even necessarily with my business, just as a human being. It was wonderful and I did connect and I left fulfilled.

I would love to know your thoughts about being present, asking questions, and getting to the deeper connection.

Am I the only one wants this?

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your confusion is and where you want your CLARITY to be.

GO BE the Leader of YOUR Life!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate

P.S. Are you leading a life that is consistent, orderly and congruent? Is it full of unity, peace and friendship? Are YOU Leading A Life Of Harmony? JOIN US in our online community if you are interested in leading a hope centered, abundant, relationship focused, mindful, optimistic, nurturing, YES filled life!  #LeadingALifeOfHarmony

Why?

Do you ever find yourself doing things and not even realizing why you’re doing them? This is my new favorite thing thanks to Jacob Longoria for challenging myself and my friends at our Fab Four retreat. Why are you doing this or that?

You can get into such a routine sometimes you don’t even realize why you’re doing something. That is my challenge to you this week, look at the things that you have on your schedule. Look at the things that you do day in and day out and ask yourself why?

Is it something that you want to continue because you have a burning desire to do it or is it something that you were doing just because it’s become a habit?

I would love to know your thoughts about why. Do you look at your calendar and the things that you are doing and ask why?

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your confusion is and where you want your CLARITY to be.

GO BE the Leader of YOUR Life!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate

P.S. Are you leading a life that is consistent, orderly and congruent? Is it full of unity, peace and friendship? Are YOU Leading A Life Of Harmony? JOIN US in our online community if you are interested in leading a hope centered, abundant, relationship focused, mindful, optimistic, nurturing, YES filled life!  #LeadingALifeOfHarmony

Perfectly Yourself

“You were born to be real, not to be perfect” – Unknown

Perfectly Yourself, yes that’s this week’s message. I bring it to you as that is the title of a book that came across my email. The title intrigued me. When I opened it up, there was an excerpt from the book.

“Our only regrets come from abandoning our true selves. Are you celebrating your true self? Or are you still trying to be the person you think other people want you to be? Or the person you think other people will like?”

That is powerful. I encourage you to think about it. Do YOU step into life being perfectly yourself? Or are you trying to be someone else? Someone that you think others want you to be or that others will like?

I get to thank a couple of people in our community for sharing their thoughts:

Debbie Bellon The older I get the more I find it easier to be completely myself however it’s still a work in progress.

Phyliss June Rinis Myers OMG so needed to hear this. I am working on this very thing.

Carolina van der Hout Is it a coincidence or a wink from God? This book seeing light of day…. on my birthday this year. I think that many people have this challenge in their lives. Silly because the world would be so boring if we were all exactly the same..

Amber Bachus-Martin I love this message.

Stacey McInerney Awesome Message & incredibly on target for the things swirling around in my life right now! Can’t wait to share with you the outcomes

I would love to know your thoughts. Feel free to email me at info@ninaobier.com.

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your INFLUENCE is and where YOU want it to be.

GO BE the Leader of YOUR Life!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate

P.S. Are you leading a life that is consistent, orderly and congruent? Is it full of unity, peace and friendship? Are YOU Leading A Life Of Harmony? JOIN US in our online community if you are interested in leading a hope centered, abundant, relationship focused, mindful, optimistic, nurturing, YES filled life!  #LeadingALifeOfHarmony

Perspective

“I’ve learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different” – Unknown

“When you change the way you look at things the things you look at change” an oldie but goodie by Wayne Dyer. The reason I am bringing it up is I felt inspired to open up this little book, “Listen.Learn.Love.Lead”

The page I opened to was on Listen. The quote was “The secret of change is to focus all of your energy not on fighting the old but on building the new.” -Socrates.

It’s important to look at your perspective and see where you are coming from. And does it always have to be your way, your perspective? How about you listen first? Could you seek first to understand then to be understood? Maybe look at things from another’s perspective? That’s this week’s message.

I would love to know your thoughts. Feel free to email me at info@ninaobier.com.

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your INFLUENCE is and where YOU want it to be.

GO BE the Leader of YOUR Life!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate

P.S. Are you leading a life that is consistent, orderly and congruent? Is it full of unity, peace and friendship? Are YOU Leading A Life Of Harmony? JOIN US in our online community if you are interested in leading a hope centered, abundant, relationship focused, mindful, optimistic, nurturing, YES filled life!  #LeadingALifeOfHarmony

Community

“Coming together is a beginning, keeping together is progress, working together is success”. -Henry Ford

I’m all about connection, creation, communication and celebration. These ARE the core values of my life. I realized I needed a way to bring these all together. The answer community. If you’re local you know that 3 years ago I created a community, Freedom Finders Connect, we meet faithfully the first Wednesday of every month, where I share teachings on personal growth, accountability, truth and harmony. What I believe are the pillars of BEING the Leader of YOUR life.

As I witnessed the growth in the women who attend our face to face event, I realized WE needed an online platform, a community, where we could continue the connection, creation, communication, and celebration.

Leading A Life of Harmony IS that platform. This group is for anyone who is already Leading A Life Of Harmony or for those interested in leading a Hope centered, Abundant, Relationship focused, Mindful, Optimistic, Nourish filled, YES life!

This is an online community where WE share best practices, where WE grow and support each other. I will be sharing articles, videos, both mine and others that are meant to stretch you and make you think, I welcome our members to do the same.

We don’t have a lot of rules because we know you are all positive, respectful, fabulous people and have enough sense to not post promotional material and the like.

We have one “rule” in this group: Post in this group ONLY when you FEEL FABULOUS.

I like to post this one rule as a reminder that when you are in a good feeling place, that’s when you attract the best answers, make the best connections, and take the best action.

When you are feeling negative, come here, READ and be inspired. When you are back to feeling fabulous come here and POST!

How are you…#LeadingALifeOfHarmony ?

I would love to have you join us. Say YES to #LeadingALifeOfHarmony by clicking HERE and joining OUR online community.

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your INFLUENCE is and where YOU want it to be.

GO BE the Leader of YOUR Life!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate