Travel Light

“The reason we struggle with insecurity is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel.” -Steve Furtick

If you want to travel far and fast, travel light! Yes, that’s this week’s message. This is not a new message. I’ve talked about this one before.

Why are we so focused on what others are doing? Why can’t we let go of fear, bitterness, resentment, and anger? That stuff is dragging you down.

I don’t know about you but every day I try to choose JOY as my compass. Instead of looking around at what everyone else is doing, I remind myself that I have a unique purpose, vision and mission that I am to do in this life.

I said this a couple of weeks ago, comparison is the thief of joy. If this is true then I am going to do my best not to compare myself to others.

I would love to know your thoughts. Feel free to email me at info@ninaobier.com.

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your INFLUENCE is and where YOU want it to be.

GO BE the Leader of YOUR Life!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate

#LeadingALifeOfHarmony

The KEY is in your Morning Routine

“Listen.Learn.Love.Lead” My journey in life with humility and grace.

P.S. Are you leading a life that is consistent, orderly and congruent? Is it full of unity, peace and friendship? Are YOU Leading A Life Of Harmony? JOIN US in our online community if you are interested in leading a hope centered, abundant, relationship focused, mindful, optimistic, nurturing, YES filled life!  #LeadingALifeOfHarmony

Lessons From An Egg Hunt

“Blaze a path of your own brilliance and illuminate the world.” -Unknown

Lessons from an egg hunt. Yes, that’s this week’s message. I bring it to you as I reflect on one of my favorite moments from this past weekend, which was when I participated in an Easter egg hunt.

There were about 100 eggs for 5 of us to find. It was night time which made it more exciting. I remember the adrenaline rush when we ran out into the yard to go find the eggs. I watched as people were finding eggs in the cars and the plants in the front yard. So, I followed their lead. I too started finding eggs. Then it dawned on me and I asked myself, “Why am I following other people, when I could blaze my own trail?” At that moment, I took off into the backyard and that is when I found the most eggs.

I remember thinking to myself “I am such a rock star! I am doing so well at this.”

We then went upstairs to count our eggs. Guess what? I came in…last, and it didn’t matter. I learned these lessons; I totally enjoyed the journey and focused on being the best version of myself. When I took the focus off what others were doing, when I choose to be a leader, that is when I found the most eggs.

I would love to know your thoughts. Are you blazing a trail, finding your own path, and being the leader of your life? Are you enjoying the journey? Or are you comparing yourself to others? Getting down on yourself for not “winning” the hunt? Feel free to email me at info@ninaobier.com.

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your INFLUENCE is and where YOU want it to be.

GO BE the Leader of YOUR Life!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate

#LeadingALifeOfHarmony

The KEY is in your Morning Routine

“Listen.Learn.Love.Lead” My journey in life with humility and grace.

P.S. Are you leading a life that is consistent, orderly and congruent? Is it full of unity, peace and friendship? Are YOU Leading A Life Of Harmony? JOIN US in our online community if you are interested in leading a hope centered, abundant, relationship focused, mindful, optimistic, nurturing, YES filled life!  #LeadingALifeOfHarmony

How’s That Working For You?

“Stop worrying about what can go wrong, and get excited about what can go -right.”  Unknown

Pay more attention to what’s working positively in your life than what is causing you trouble. Are you more focused on the criticism? Either criticism from others or the criticism you give yourself? If things are going wrong, is that where your energy goes?

How’s that working for you?

I believe this is a simple concept. May not be easy. Simple. Focus on what’s working positively in your life. If you have trouble thinking about it, take out a piece of paper and a pen, start writing down all the good things that are going right. Get your brain focused on what’s working for you.

I would love to know your thoughts about this simple concept of focusing on the good. Feel free to email me at info@ninaobier.com.

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your INFLUENCE is and where YOU want it to be.

GO BE the Leader of YOUR Life!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate

#LeadingALifeOfHarmony

The KEY is in your Morning Routine

“Listen.Learn.Love.Lead” My journey in life with humility and grace.

P.S. Are you leading a life that is consistent, orderly and congruent? Is it full of unity, peace and friendship? Are YOU Leading A Life Of Harmony? JOIN US in our online community if you are interested in leading a hope centered, abundant, relationship focused, mindful, optimistic, nurturing, YES filled life!  #LeadingALifeOfHarmony

Everyone Wants To Change The World…

“Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.”  -Unknown

Everyone wants to change the world but no one thinks of changing themselves. Yes, that’s this week’s message. In my weekly video, I explain what I mean by this concept.

Do you agree that the way to change the world is by changing ourselves? I absolutely believe this to be true. It is my passion to lead others on their personal development journey in a FUN way.

This is why on April 28-30, 2017 I will host my first retreat. The weekend retreat includes an 8-Hour Transformational Blueprint for Success Workshop on Saturday. During the workshop you will discover and create a plan for your purpose, vision and passion. We will spend two nights in a beautiful location. Breakfast Saturday and Sunday. Happy Hour/Dinner Friday Night. Dinner Saturday Night. Pajama Party/Game Night Saturday. PLUS Special connection time Sunday morning. There are only 4 more spots. More details HERE 

Are you ready to be the change you wish to see in the world? Be sure to email me at info@ninaobier.com to officially grab your spot at my first retreat.

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your INFLUENCE is and where YOU want it to be.

GO BE the Leader of YOUR Life!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate

#LeadingALifeOfHarmony

The KEY is in your Morning Routine

“Listen.Learn.Love.Lead” My journey in life with humility and grace.

P.S. Are you leading a life that is consistent, orderly and congruent? Is it full of unity, peace and friendship? Are YOU Leading A Life Of Harmony? JOIN US in our online community if you are interested in leading a hope centered, abundant, relationship focused, mindful, optimistic, nurturing, YES filled life!  #LeadingALifeOfHarmony

Not the Problem

“I do not fix problems. I fix my thinking. Then problems fix themselves.” -Louise L. Hay

The problem is not the problem, the problem is you keep thinking about and talking about the problem. Yes, that’s this week’s message. I get to thank Dana Wilde of The Mind Aware for reminding me of that powerful statement.

Let me repeat what I said, the problem is not the problem. The problem is you keep THINKING about the problem, and you keep TALKING about the problem.

It’s how the brain works. What you focus on, happens! Let me explain. One of Dana’s teachings is “The Cycle of Perpetual Sameness.”

It starts with your unconscious mind, or your beliefs. When it’s thinking of something and your putting energy into it, it is matching up with your outside world, or your behaviors and outcomes. Then when it matches up and you get upset about it with your thoughts and self-talk, then you solidify your beliefs and you have created “The Cycle of Perpetual Sameness.”

Here is a simple example: Your unconscious mind is focused on the fact that you are always late. You have a belief that you are always late. You might even be saying to yourself, “I’m going to be late, I’m always late.” That is your inside world picture. Your inside world picture will then do whatever it takes to match it with your outside world picture. The result, you will be late. Then if you choose to get upset or have strong emotion around the fact that you were late. If you keep thinking about or talking about being late. You have solidified your inside world picture into your unconscious mind and the vicious cycle of being late will repeat.

The problem is not the problem, the problem is you keep thinking about and talking about the problem. What will you do differently? How will you think differently?

I would love to know your thoughts. Feel free to email me at info@ninaobier.com

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your INFLUENCE is and where YOU want it to be.

GO BE the Leader of YOUR Life!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate

#LeadingALifeOfHarmony

The KEY is in your Morning Routine

“Listen.Learn.Love.Lead” My journey in life with humility and grace.

P.S. Are you leading a life that is consistent, orderly and congruent? Is it full of unity, peace and friendship? Are YOU Leading A Life Of Harmony? JOIN US in our online community if you are interested in leading a hope centered, abundant, relationship focused, mindful, optimistic, nurturing, YES filled life!  #LeadingALifeOfHarmony

Go BE the L.E.A.D.E.R of Your Life!

“Leadership is not about titles, positions, or flowcharts. It is about one life influencing another.” -John C. Maxwell

Go be the L.E.A.D.E.R of your life! Yes, that’s this week’s message. For anyone who knows me, knows that I LOVE acronyms. When I say, go be the leader of your life, L.E.A.D.E.R means something. Each letter means something. I’m not going to go through all the letters right now, because that might be the title of my next book.

To hear about the last three letters, watch my video from earlier this week.

I would love to know your thoughts. Feel free to email me at info@ninaobier.com

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your INFLUENCE is and where YOU want it to be.

GO BE the Leader of YOUR Life!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate

#LeadingALifeOfHarmony

The KEY is in your Morning Routine

“Listen.Learn.Love.Lead” My journey in life with humility and grace.

P.S. Are you leading a life that is consistent, orderly and congruent? Is it full of unity, peace and friendship? Are YOU Leading A Life Of Harmony? JOIN US in our online community if you are interested in leading a hope centered, abundant, relationship focused, mindful, optimistic, nurturing, YES filled life!  #LeadingALifeOfHarmony

Passion Is Powerful

“Enthusiasm is a choice, not a result.” -John Mason

Passion is powerful, yes that’s this week’s message. It came to me for several reasons. Yes, I opened one of my favorite books, “Believe You Can” by John Mason this morning and the title of the random page was “Passion Is Powerful.”

But really is it random? I believe that what we focus on grows. I’m pretty sure I am not the first person to tell you this.

I have been thinking about and talking about passion for quite some time. Especially since I am going to be launching an exclusive 7-week book study on Melissa West’s book “Hot Pursuit-Chase Your Dreams With Passion and Live an Exceptional Life.”

Everyone has the opportunity to have passion. Did you know that most winners were ex-losers who got passionate?

I found this great article that highlights 15 quotes from some of the world’s most inspiring people. Check it out- Why Passion Matters.

Do you know what you’re passionate about? Are you chasing it? I would love to know your thoughts. Feel free to email me at info@ninaobier.com

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your INFLUENCE is and where YOU want it to be.

GO BE the Leader of YOUR Life!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate

#LeadingALifeOfHarmony

The KEY is in your Morning Routine

“Listen.Learn.Love.Lead” My journey in life with humility and grace.

P.S. Are you leading a life that is consistent, orderly and congruent? Is it full of unity, peace and friendship? Are YOU Leading A Life Of Harmony? JOIN US in our online community if you are interested in leading a hope centered, abundant, relationship focused, mindful, optimistic, nurturing, YES filled life!  #LeadingALifeOfHarmony