About Your Leadership Liaison

Nina Obier is an Exceptional Listener, Author, Freedom Facilitator and Training & Development Specialist in Human Connection. Her personal mission is to be a lively, loving, leader who is leaving a legacy focused on faith, family, fun and freedom.

Encourage

“When the world says, ‘Give up’, Hope whispers, ‘Try it one more time’”-Unknown

Encourage, yes that’s this week’s message. I bring it to you as I want to encourage you to listen, to love, to live and to laugh.

Since I brought this message to you from one of my walls of inspiration in my home I wanted you to see this week’s video.

Need more research on this topic. Here is an article worth a read How and Why to Offer Words of Encouragement– by Ross McCammon.

I would love to know your thoughts. Feel free to email me at info@ninaobier.com.

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your INFLUENCE is and where YOU want it to be.

GO BE the Leader of YOUR Life!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate

The KEY is in your Morning Routine

P.S. I am grateful for the intentional action I took a few months ago when I published my second book, “My Daily Clarity- 90 Days to Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate” It brings me joy to watch others use this tool consistently and have tremendous shifts in their daily routines that have created space for their absolute Yes’s. Be sure to grab your copy and see what clarity putting pen to paper can create. Maybe grab a few trusted friends or colleagues and start your own accountability group too!

Life in Your Years

“It’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years” -Abraham Lincoln

The Dash. Yes, that’s this week’s message. I bring it to you as in the past week I have attended two memorial services.

The common theme was the story about your dash. That is the little sign in between the day you were born and the day that you leave this earthly life. It was a hard reminder to say what are you doing from moment to moment?

Are you really living in the moment? Are you making memories? Are you leaving a legacy?

These two gentlemen were fitting examples of living their dash. We heard story after story about the relationships that they had, the fun that they brought to life, and the good that they did for others. I believe that their legacy will live on.

Is living a legacy important to you? Here are 5 Ways to Leave a Great Legacy– by Joan Moran.

I would love to know your thoughts. Feel free to email me at info@ninaobier.com.

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your INFLUENCE is and where YOU want it to be.

GO BE the Leader of YOUR Life!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate

The KEY is in your Morning Routine

P.S. I am grateful for the intentional action I took a few months ago when I published my second book, “My Daily Clarity- 90 Days to Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate” It brings me joy to watch others use this tool consistently and have tremendous shifts in their daily routines that have created space for their absolute Yes’s. Be sure to grab your copy and see what clarity putting pen to paper can create. Maybe grab a few trusted friends or colleagues and start your own accountability group too!

Give Till It Feels Good

“Those who bring sunshine to the lives of others cannot keep it from themselves” -James Matthew Barrie

Give till it feels good. Yes, that’s this week’s message. If you are looking to feel good and you are waiting for others to make you feel good, I have another way of looking at it. Go make others feel good. Go serve others.

This past week had plenty of ups and downs. It had laughter and tears. The way that I choose to get through life is by giving until it feels good.

It’s been said that people can survive on 5 positive words that you said to them, from a pat on the back or from a helping hand for longer than you think.

Give till it feels good. I would love to know your thoughts. Feel free to email me at info@ninaobier.com.

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your INFLUENCE is and where YOU want it to be.

GO BE the Leader of YOUR Life!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate

The KEY is in your Morning Routine

P.S. I am grateful for the intentional action I took a few months ago when I published my second book, “My Daily Clarity- 90 Days to Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate” It brings me joy to watch others use this tool consistently and have tremendous shifts in their daily routines that have created space for their absolute Yes’s. Be sure to grab your copy and see what clarity putting pen to paper can create. Maybe grab a few trusted friends or colleagues and start your own accountability group too!

Within Us Not Outside Us

“What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.” -Ralph Waldo Emerson

It’s what happens within us not outside us that is most important. Yes, that’s this week’s message. I bring it to you as this morning I opened an email from one of my favorite people Matthew Kelly and this was the message I received. It’s no coincidence, because last week there were some things that didn’t go my way. Things that happened outside of me. Guess what? In that moment and every moment, I get to choose how I will “BE” on the inside. This is the work that I believe is most important.

As if that first email wasn’t enough of a sign, I received my daily mantra from Dana Wilde that said, “I am happy with myself and my positive attitude.” Having a positive attitude is a choice. I’m also going to tell you it’s not always easy. It’s a simple choice that we can make every day. See the difference? Simple, not always easy.

How are you talking to yourself? What thoughts are you thinking? Are you allowing your outside circumstances to determine your next moment?

This is a great blog post from a younger perspective that I wanted to share “When Life Gives You Lemons.”

I would love to know your thoughts. Feel free to email me at info@ninaobier.com.

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your INFLUENCE is and where YOU want it to be.

GO BE the Leader of YOUR Life!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate

The KEY is in your Morning Routine

P.S. I am grateful for the intentional action I took a few months ago when I published my second book, “My Daily Clarity- 90 Days to Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate” It brings me joy to watch others use this tool consistently and have tremendous shifts in their daily routines that have created space for their absolute Yes’s. Be sure to grab your copy and see what clarity putting pen to paper can create. Maybe grab a few trusted friends or colleagues and start your own accountability group too!

 

Opportunity or Obstacle

“The biggest obstacles in our life are the barriers our minds create.” -Unknown

An opportunity or an obstacle? Yes, that’s this week’s message. I bring it to you as I had this great realization as we were driving in the car yet again. Many of you know we travel quite a bit in our car to watch our daughter play softball, (by the way they won their conference championship- Go Upstate Spartans)

While I am in the car, I’ve always told myself this story of how I get car sick. I can’t do anything while I am in the car except; stare out the window, listen to music, or close my eyes.

Well, this past week while we were driving I had this incredible idea come into my head. This teaching that I wanted to do and I knew I had to write it down. What was I to do? This time I choose to take out my notebook and start writing.

Guess what? I didn’t throw up and I didn’t get a total headache! That is when I realized I had been telling that story of not being able to do anything while I drive in the car and I was letting it hold me back.

Are you doing that? Are you telling yourself a story that creates this obstacle that you never turn it into an opportunity? Check out this article for “10 Strategies for Turning Obstacles Into Opportunities.”

I would love to know your thoughts. Feel free to email me at info@ninaobier.com.

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your INFLUENCE is and where YOU want it to be.

GO BE the Leader of YOUR Life!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate

The KEY is in your Morning Routine

P.S. I am grateful for the intentional action I took a few months ago when I published my second book, “My Daily Clarity- 90 Days to Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate” It brings me joy to watch others use this tool consistently and have tremendous shifts in their daily routines that have created space for their absolute Yes’s. Be sure to grab your copy and see what clarity putting pen to paper can create. Maybe grab a few trusted friends or colleagues and start your own accountability group too!

One Moment At A Time

“Wherever you are, be all there.” -Jim Elliot

One moment at a time. Yes, that’s this week’s message. I am constantly being reminded of this lesson. Cherish the moment. The actual moment of being present wherever you are.

I know it can be hard. We have so many distractions in our lives. We have the physically distractions and sometimes more difficult to escape the mental distractions. Did you know we have about 90,000 thoughts a day?

The greatest gift we can give ourselves and others is in the moment. This past weekend we were celebrating my daughter’s graduation from college. At the same time, we have another daughter who was playing in her final home college softball series game of her sophomore year.

Seeing as one was in Florida and the other was in South Carolina we could not be in two places at once. What we can do is live in the moment, be fully present. It is the only gift we have.

How successful are you with being in the moment? Being fully present? Check out this article for “11 Ways You Can Fit Mindfulness Into Your Busy Life.”

I would love to know your thoughts. Feel free to email me at info@ninaobier.com.

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your INFLUENCE is and where YOU want it to be.

GO BE the Leader of YOUR Life!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate

The KEY is in your Morning Routine

P.S. I am grateful for the intentional action I took a few months ago when I published my second book, “My Daily Clarity- 90 Days to Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate” It brings me joy to watch others use this tool consistently and have tremendous shifts in their daily routines that have created space for their absolute Yes’s. Be sure to grab your copy and see what clarity putting pen to paper can create. Maybe grab a few trusted friends or colleagues and start your own accountability group too!

Action

“You can’t build a reputation on what you’re going to do.” -Henry Ford

Action…speaks louder than words. Yes, that’s this week’s message. Not a new message. Why do a new message, when this one still needs to be learned?

This past weekend I FINALLY launched my retreat. I have been thinking about it since last October. Don’t get me wrong, being the brain trainer that I am, thinking about it, is a great part of the process. I also know intentional action creates momentum.

We don’t get momentum if we are only talking about it, or writing about. Even though I am all about putting pen to paper, if that is your only step, you are allowing your dream to stay a dream.

That’s what I loved most about this retreat. We did plenty of deep thinking and a ton of writing. In the end, every single one of those women ended up with a blueprint, an action plan. They are launching. The best part they now are part of an accountability group which will hold their intention, cheer on their action and lift them up when they need.

I would love to know your thoughts about action speaks louder than words. Feel free to email me at info@ninaobier.com.

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your INFLUENCE is and where YOU want it to be.

GO BE the Leader of YOUR Life!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate

The KEY is in your Morning Routine

P.S. I am grateful for the intentional action I took a few months ago when I published my second book, “My Daily Clarity- 90 Days to Connect.Create.Communicate.Celebrate” It brings me joy to watch others use this tool consistently and have tremendous shifts in their daily routines that have created space for their absolute Yes’s. Be sure to grab your copy and see what clarity putting pen to paper can create. Maybe grab a few trusted friends or colleagues and start your own accountability group too!