About Clarity Coach l Freedom Facilitator l Motivational Speaker

Nina Obier is an Exceptional Listener, Author, Freedom Facilitator and Training & Development Specialist in Human Connection. Her personal mission is to be a lively, loving, leader who is leaving a legacy focused on faith, family, fun and freedom.

Be Aware, Don’t Compare

“Comparison is the thief of joy.” -Theodore Roosevelt

Be aware, don’t compare. Yes, that’s this week’s message. I bring it to you as I have this heightened awareness about how we tend to compare ourselves to others. Theodore Roosevelt says it best, “Comparison is the thief of joy.”

Instead, I was reminded by my friend, Marty Ward, that we need to be aware of our gifts, talents, and abilities. We are all uniquely made. We are supposed to share those unique talents, gifts and abilities in the way that God intended.

We each have a purpose. We each have unique abilities. That’s where we should focus.

Please stop comparing, be aware and SHARE the real you.

I would love to know your thoughts.

To join the rest and best of the conversation join us in our online community Leading A Life Of Harmony

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your confusion is and where you want your CLARITY to be.

MAKE Every Day A Day Worth Celebrating!

Connect.Create.Communicate

P.S. Are you leading a life that is consistent, orderly and congruent? Is it full of unity, peace and friendship? Are YOU Leading A Life Of Harmony? JOIN US in our online community if you are interested in leading a hope centered, abundant, relationship focused, mindful, optimistic, nurturing, YES filled life!  #LeadingALifeOfHarmony

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Be Like A Teflon Pan

“If we could forget our troubles as easily as we forget our blessings, how different things would be!” -John Mason

Be like a Teflon pan, don’t let things stick to you. Yes, that’s this week’s message. It comes from “Believe You Can” by John Mason.

I absolutely love randomly opening books to a page. It proves to me that the message is divinely given.

In a nutshell it spoke about not letting things stick to you that don’t serve you. Meaning words from others or past circumstances. When you are in your head and you constantly go over and over the grievances, the negativity or the things that you have lost. That doesn’t serve you.

You can be a Teflon pan and choose to not let things stick to you. You can choose what to feed into your world and into your mind.

I would love to know your thoughts?

To join the rest and best of the conversation join us in our online community Leading A Life Of Harmony

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your confusion is and where you want your CLARITY to be.

MAKE Today A Day Worth Celebrating!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate

P.S. Are you leading a life that is consistent, orderly and congruent? Is it full of unity, peace and friendship? Are YOU Leading A Life Of Harmony? JOIN US in our online community if you are interested in leading a hope centered, abundant, relationship focused, mindful, optimal, nourish filled, YES life!  #LeadingALifeOfHarmony

Set The World On Fire

“Be who God meant you to be and you will set the world on fire.” St. Catherine of Siena

Be who you are created to be and you will set the world on fire. Yes, that’s this week’s message. I bring it to you as it “popped” up the other morning while I was doing my reflection.

As I continuously say, there are no coincidences. I was on day 2 of supporting Melissa West through the Blueprint for Success which is centered around your God given purpose. Where you really, really, really figure out your purpose.

After you articulate your purpose the next step is to create the vision to live out your purpose and set the world on fire!

Are you waking up every day to set the world on fire? To BE who YOU were created to be? You and you alone? We are ALL uniquely made, we have talents that we have been gifted with, and now we need to do something with them.

It’s time to step out. It’s time to set the world on fire and be who you were created to be.

I would love to know your thoughts. Are you crystal clear on your purpose? Are you setting your vision to align with that purpose so that you can make a difference in this world?

To join the rest and best of the conversation join us in our online community Leading A Life Of Harmony

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your confusion is and where you want your CLARITY to be.

MAKE Today A Day Worth Celebrating!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate

P.S. Are you leading a life that is consistent, orderly and congruent? Is it full of unity, peace and friendship? Are YOU Leading A Life Of Harmony? JOIN US in our online community if you are interested in leading a hope centered, abundant, relationship focused, mindful, optimal, nourish filled, YES life!  #LeadingALifeOfHarmony

It’s Never Too Late

“It’s never too late to BE what you might have been.” George Eliot

It’s never too late, yes that’s this week’s message. I bring it to you as I felt like I knew what I wanted to speak about, yet my intuition told me to pick up one of my favorite books, “Believe You Can” by John Mason.

As usual, there are no coincidences. I opened it up to this quote by George Eliot, “It’s never too late to BE what you might have been.”

It goes on to talk about how important it is to have a purpose and to live on purpose. People say they want riches, but what they really want is to be fulfilled, that comes from a purpose driven life.

I say no coincidences, because this past weekend I attended a celebration of life for a man who truly lived this concept. Every day he woke up and he had a purpose. Whether it was to have fun with his grand kids, to travel the world, to get to know the cashier at the checkout line, to mentor a business man with the most creative ideas, or to pour into the arts without accepting any recognition.

As his son-in-law so eloquently put it, quite simply, he made the world a better place.

Living on purpose, that’s what’s all about. That is the path to true happiness.

I would love to know your thoughts.

To join the rest and best of the conversation join us in our online community Leading A Life Of Harmony

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your confusion is and where you want your CLARITY to be.

MAKE Today A Day Worth Celebrating!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate

P.S. Are you leading a life that is consistent, orderly and congruent? Is it full of unity, peace and friendship? Are YOU Leading A Life Of Harmony? JOIN US in our online community if you are interested in leading a hope centered, abundant, relationship focused, mindful, optimal, nourish filled, YES life!  #LeadingALifeOfHarmony

Who Are You B.E.I.N.G?

“To touch the soul of another human being is to walk on holy ground.” Stephen Covey

Who are you B.E.I.N.G? Yes, that’s this week’s message. I bring it to you, as I wanted to share this acronym that I was gifted from above.

When you are in those moments of choice, the choice between reacting and responding, who are you being?

I’m asking you to consider this…

Breathe… and then Embrace the opportunity to Improve & Nurture the relationship with Grace.

Who are you being? Are you going to choose to Breathe before you respond? Will you Embrace this opportunity where you have a choose to Improve & Nurture the relationship… with Grace?

Love what one of our community members had to say on this topic:

Kathy Fisk Mela Who am I being? That’s an awesome question. Most of the time I come from a place of Love kindness and compassion. I know that’s my purpose and my message. There are times that my humanness shows up and I come from a place of confusion, distraction, uncertainty. When that happens, I find that getting closer in my relationship to God and my purpose helps me shift back to being a rare, unique messenger of Love kindness and compassion

I would love to know your thoughts. Who are you B.E.I.N.G. in those moments of choice?

To join the rest and best of the conversation join us in our online community Leading A Life Of Harmony

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your confusion is and where you want your CLARITY to be.

MAKE Today A Day Worth Celebrating!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate

P.S. Are you leading a life that is consistent, orderly and congruent? Is it full of unity, peace and friendship? Are YOU Leading A Life Of Harmony? JOIN US in our online community if you are interested in leading a hope centered, abundant, relationship focused, mindful, optimal, nourish filled, YES life!  #LeadingALifeOfHarmony

Go Out On A Limb

“When you step out into your brilliance you spark others to step into theirs”-Nina Obier

Go out on a limb, that’s where all the fruit is! Yes, that’s this week’s message. I bring it to you as this week I felt compelled to pull out the book “Believe You Can” by John Mason.

I have never opened the book up to this page. Reminding me that I believe there are no coincidences. The messages we are meant to hear, appear.

He speaks of how, we shouldn’t wait for all the lights to turn green before we leave our house.

Is that what you’re doing?

What do you expect out of life? Do you expect little? Are you okay with a little?

Or do you have BIG dreams? Do you choose not to step out in them because you’re afraid of the consequences?

Stop it. We don’t know what’s going to happen. With movement, with action, comes clarity.

He continues the conversation by saying, “Those who dare, do. Those who dare not, do not.”

Yes, it can be that simple. Take the next right step. Going into action mode and allowing the universe to conspire for you.

I would love to know your thoughts are you the type that goes out on a limb, because you know that’s where the fruit is?

To join the rest and best of the conversation join us in our online community Leading A Life Of Harmony

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your confusion is and where you want your CLARITY to be.

MAKE Today A Day Worth Celebrating!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate

P.S. Are you leading a life that is consistent, orderly and congruent? Is it full of unity, peace and friendship? Are YOU Leading A Life Of Harmony? JOIN US in our online community if you are interested in leading a hope centered, abundant, relationship focused, mindful, optimistic, nurturing, YES filled life!  #LeadingALifeOfHarmony

What If It’s Better

What if it’s better?

“A poor frog does not praise his pond.”  I read this quote in the book “Seize Today” by John Mason. What it means is that we need to be grateful for what we do have, not what we don’t have.

“When we praise and celebrate our life there’s more in life to praise and celebrate.” Oprah Winfrey

The truth of the matter is you could have it all planned out and think that it’s going to work exactly that way when most of the time it doesn’t. Life is about learning and growing. I believe if we’re not green and growing we are brown and dying.

I have a process that I try to do daily. Before my feet hit the ground in the morning I declare “Today I AM” and I fill in the blank. I also declare “I say YES to” and I fill in the blank.

Before my day gets going I take out “My Daily Clarity” book and I write with the following prompts:

  • “Today I AM”
  • “I say Yes to”
  • “I’m feeling so cheerful and blessed”

These three prompts allow me to set the stage for who I will BE, what I will DO, and what I will HAVE. It’s a fabulous formula for a victorious day.

This process I do every single day is my way of hitting the REFRESH button.

Then, life happens. I mentally or literally stop and RENEW, or reset my day by asking myself these questions:

  • Where is my attention going right now?
  • How is my breathing?
  • What’s going right?

At the end of the day before I go to sleep I REFLECT on my day. Sometimes it’s literally by putting pen to paper and other times it’s mentally answering these questions:

  • I give myself a pat on the back?
  • I am THANKFUL for?
  • What do I need to let go of?
  • Today I accomplished.

That’s my simple process: REFRESH: give new strength or energy to. RENEW: resume after an interruption, give fresh life. REFLECT: think deeply or carefully about.

I truly try to praise the life I have. It’s not always the way I thought our planned it would be but it’s what God intended it to be and therefore I will give thanks and be glad.

How do you praise the pond you’re in? Do you have the poor frog mentality or the WHAT If IT’s BETTER mentality?

I am Nina Obier– the link between where your confusion is and where you want your CLARITY to be.

MAKE Today A Day Worth Celebrating!

Everyday…Connect.Create.Communicate

P.S. Are you leading a life that is consistent, orderly and congruent? Is it full of unity, peace and friendship? Are YOU Leading A Life Of Harmony? JOIN US in our online community if you are interested in leading a hope centered, abundant, relationship focused, mindful, optimistic, nurturing, YES filled life!  #LeadingALifeOfHarmony